But it's a lot of work being T's partner, and I definitely feel I've sacrificed to help his career, and that I'm continuing to feel that way, but it also isn't a pure sacrifice, it's opening space between us for both of us, but even opening this space requires work, when you've shared living space with somebody for nearly 20 years, even as ( Read more... )

Out of bed at 7am, needed to be out of the house by 8am, drove B to his condo, then myself to Metro, and worked downtown. Back home, cooked dinner for myself, now resting on the sofa ( Read more... )

T is tired tonight, says he didn't sleep well last night. I cooked dinner and then we watched one episode of Andor -- we're through 01x09. I would've stayed up to watch all the rest ( Read more... )

Today my lunch break was a nap break, was feeling so sleepy!  Astrid and I enjoyed slugging on the bed for an hour ( Read more... )

I did lift weights this morning, and went on a walk this afternoon.  I'm keeping up with laundry and dishes as my Board Game Day approaches -- Saturday morning I'll have to clean house and pick up refreshments.  I'll cook dinner for myself this evening, and then see whether I have energy left for one of my hobbies.  Music or video games or reading ( Read more... )